i got brave

and have uploaded a pic of me for my lj. It may not stay there long, but it is here for a bit. i think i get some pain this mroning, but who knows? Master is still pfutzing with His computer and the DSL hub He bought yesterday.

i have discovered a new thing about Max. He tries to bury things on his couch. He tries so hard in fact, that he makes his nose bleed by rubbing the hide off the top. The table beside his couch has blood spots on it, as does the couch cover itself. i can't imagine what the cleaning woman thinks when she sees this mess.

And then there was pain

and i have bruised breasts, and for the first time bruised nipples. Quite painful, but in a sensuous way. But is sore too. i am relaxed and feeling content with my life. This is a good thing.

After five years

An epiphanical question. Also rhetorical.

Can a relationship survive if the dominant is not a sadist but the slave/submissive/whomever is a masochist?