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jdmkleinMax discoverd the 'dog in the mirror'. He is so funny. And my closet mirror has doggie nose prints all over it. He is also, finally, telling us when he has to go out. Now if we can just remember to listen.
i've been stuggling with something for a bit. Our relationship has undergone a change. i don't know if it is good or bad. And because of that i also don't know if i like it or not. We are beginning to act like an old married couple. (emphasis on MARRIED, not OLD)
i really can't put my finger on it exactly. About the only thing i can point to for certain is we used to hug and snuggle and kiss and pet and smooch and play around a bit at night before sleep. Now, it's a peck on the lips, an 'i love you' and a 'good night my Master' , roll over and go to sleep. i miss the snuggle, hug, pet, smooch, sweet talk, thing. i don't believe there is any reason for it. i don't believe Master is upset with me for any reason. He doesn't act differently towards me in any other aspect of our life.
i know the summer temps in the desert can be killer. Just being out in the heat can take everything out of you. i try not to be demanding. i also know that the whole of KAF is in a cluster fuck, and that translates to lots of pressure on Master. i try to anticipate His needs. Take care of Him. Since school's out, i've taken over food duty. i have been planning the meals instead of asking Him what He'd like. He seems ok with that. i ask if He would like anything special or i'll suggest something for dinner to see if He's ok with it. i've been cooking from scratch. i have more time. i'm not an excellent cook by any stretch of the imagination, but what i know how to cook, i can do well. i got a new cookbook, The Joy of Cooking to help with things i don't know about.
Even that seems more housewifey than before. i can see an attraction to living this kind of life, being a home body. i don't like being with large groups of people, i don't mind my own company. And i certainly don't mind just Master and i. i'm just feeling weird. Maybe it's just the letdown from the passed year. And the stress for Master.
This weekend i think i'll try to bring it up to Master. i'm sure it's nothing to worry about, It just makes me feel a bit weird. Maybe i'm the opposite of Jade. She is very happy and content to be able to stay home and take care of her Master. i thought i would be too, but i'm not sure. This is certainly a ramble, more stream of consciousness than real writing. i think i've gone around in a pretty big circle and now i'm lost.
Ah yes, i remember now. No more snuggly, huggy, kissey face, at night before we go to sleep. Maybe i'll just try to get Master into bed earlier at night so we have some time for messin' around before He falls asleep. (Master if you read this tonight, please remember i'm only joking) After all, He is an old man. Maybe He doesn't want to wake the 'baby'. Master, i can be really quiet, i promise.
i've been stuggling with something for a bit. Our relationship has undergone a change. i don't know if it is good or bad. And because of that i also don't know if i like it or not. We are beginning to act like an old married couple. (emphasis on MARRIED, not OLD)
i really can't put my finger on it exactly. About the only thing i can point to for certain is we used to hug and snuggle and kiss and pet and smooch and play around a bit at night before sleep. Now, it's a peck on the lips, an 'i love you' and a 'good night my Master' , roll over and go to sleep. i miss the snuggle, hug, pet, smooch, sweet talk, thing. i don't believe there is any reason for it. i don't believe Master is upset with me for any reason. He doesn't act differently towards me in any other aspect of our life.
i know the summer temps in the desert can be killer. Just being out in the heat can take everything out of you. i try not to be demanding. i also know that the whole of KAF is in a cluster fuck, and that translates to lots of pressure on Master. i try to anticipate His needs. Take care of Him. Since school's out, i've taken over food duty. i have been planning the meals instead of asking Him what He'd like. He seems ok with that. i ask if He would like anything special or i'll suggest something for dinner to see if He's ok with it. i've been cooking from scratch. i have more time. i'm not an excellent cook by any stretch of the imagination, but what i know how to cook, i can do well. i got a new cookbook, The Joy of Cooking to help with things i don't know about.
Even that seems more housewifey than before. i can see an attraction to living this kind of life, being a home body. i don't like being with large groups of people, i don't mind my own company. And i certainly don't mind just Master and i. i'm just feeling weird. Maybe it's just the letdown from the passed year. And the stress for Master.
This weekend i think i'll try to bring it up to Master. i'm sure it's nothing to worry about, It just makes me feel a bit weird. Maybe i'm the opposite of Jade. She is very happy and content to be able to stay home and take care of her Master. i thought i would be too, but i'm not sure. This is certainly a ramble, more stream of consciousness than real writing. i think i've gone around in a pretty big circle and now i'm lost.
Ah yes, i remember now. No more snuggly, huggy, kissey face, at night before we go to sleep. Maybe i'll just try to get Master into bed earlier at night so we have some time for messin' around before He falls asleep. (Master if you read this tonight, please remember i'm only joking) After all, He is an old man. Maybe He doesn't want to wake the 'baby'. Master, i can be really quiet, i promise.
