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Apr. 14th, 2004 03:25 amShe called me a bitch today in the office. She said it loud enough so that anyone who was passing by could not help but hear. This was precipitated by her coming to my office and telling my i had not given the text of a listening exercise to the secretary. i told her i had given the secretary everything i had done. She insisted the listening passage had not been handed in.
i went to one of the other teachers to see if she had a copy of something i had done and misplaced. We found that she had done it and forgotten. i took the text down to her office and asked her if it was what she was looking for. She grabbed it from me and said yes. i pointed out to her that what i had given her was her work. It was not my responsibility to get her work into the secretary. She got defensive, she always gets defensive and explains how it is not her problem. i should have remembered that i didn't do it. How could i remember something i wasn't even told about? i told her i didn't like being accused of not doing my work, and she said she couldn't remember everything. Well, for sure she should remember what she has done, right? i started to walk away, and she said stay here and i said no, i was done talking. She called me bitch and slammed the door in my face. i went back to her office and tried to have it out with her, but she kept slamming the door in my face (2x). i went into Jamal's office and told him i would no longer be working on that particular project. i have had enough. i had to put up with her when i sat in that office, now i don't. i told him what she said. He wanted to call her in and deal with it. i was not ready to do that. i told him she would just get angry and throw down her papers and stomp around like a child and in the end she would say she is done working on it. She has far more experience than i, i should be the one who backs out. It ended i told Jamal i would continue to work on it, but i will get my assignments from one of the others. i will not go to any meeting she is heading. i want nothing more to do with her.
edit: just in case this goes any further.
http://www.livejournal.com/users/inkuwait/2004/03/14/
i went to one of the other teachers to see if she had a copy of something i had done and misplaced. We found that she had done it and forgotten. i took the text down to her office and asked her if it was what she was looking for. She grabbed it from me and said yes. i pointed out to her that what i had given her was her work. It was not my responsibility to get her work into the secretary. She got defensive, she always gets defensive and explains how it is not her problem. i should have remembered that i didn't do it. How could i remember something i wasn't even told about? i told her i didn't like being accused of not doing my work, and she said she couldn't remember everything. Well, for sure she should remember what she has done, right? i started to walk away, and she said stay here and i said no, i was done talking. She called me bitch and slammed the door in my face. i went back to her office and tried to have it out with her, but she kept slamming the door in my face (2x). i went into Jamal's office and told him i would no longer be working on that particular project. i have had enough. i had to put up with her when i sat in that office, now i don't. i told him what she said. He wanted to call her in and deal with it. i was not ready to do that. i told him she would just get angry and throw down her papers and stomp around like a child and in the end she would say she is done working on it. She has far more experience than i, i should be the one who backs out. It ended i told Jamal i would continue to work on it, but i will get my assignments from one of the others. i will not go to any meeting she is heading. i want nothing more to do with her.
edit: just in case this goes any further.
http://www.livejournal.com/users/inkuwait/2004/03/14/
