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Nov. 2nd, 2003 08:17 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
jdmkleini was reading somewhere about someone who said her master wasn't so domly that he couldn't laff at himself when he was wrong. She, i think it was a she, said something about him being up there, and her being down there, and that wasn't the way they lived their life. i can't find where i read it, so i may not be paraphrasing it correctly.
Anyway, it got me to thinking about this 'up there/down here' stuff. We live our life together. i am submissive to Him, i am His slave. But our lives together are just like anyone else's. We joke and tease each other. We get miffed sometimes with each other. i find life with Him sometimes difficult, His culture foreign to mine. i can't imagine anyone in any relationship living any other way. Bound and nekkid is a nice thought, i just don't think it can be sustained on any level.
We do it, and have done it for long periods of time, it is not our life together. Anyone who met us might notice some oddities about our dynamic, for that matter i notice oddities about other dynamics all the time. It's just that anyone who saw us together would be hard pressed to even make a guess at what happens in the privacy of our home. They would be amazed to know exactly what they were seeing. On the other hand, i'd be mightily amazed at what goes with others too.
i have a friend who is always telling me about the M/s stuff she sees in public. Sometimes i think she just wants it to be that, other times i suppose she really is seeing what she describes. i've never seen anything like she says she often sees. i've always thought i was a very observant person. i guess i just don't know what to look for.
This rambled. i don't have my thoughts well ordered. DRAT.
Anyway, it got me to thinking about this 'up there/down here' stuff. We live our life together. i am submissive to Him, i am His slave. But our lives together are just like anyone else's. We joke and tease each other. We get miffed sometimes with each other. i find life with Him sometimes difficult, His culture foreign to mine. i can't imagine anyone in any relationship living any other way. Bound and nekkid is a nice thought, i just don't think it can be sustained on any level.
We do it, and have done it for long periods of time, it is not our life together. Anyone who met us might notice some oddities about our dynamic, for that matter i notice oddities about other dynamics all the time. It's just that anyone who saw us together would be hard pressed to even make a guess at what happens in the privacy of our home. They would be amazed to know exactly what they were seeing. On the other hand, i'd be mightily amazed at what goes with others too.
i have a friend who is always telling me about the M/s stuff she sees in public. Sometimes i think she just wants it to be that, other times i suppose she really is seeing what she describes. i've never seen anything like she says she often sees. i've always thought i was a very observant person. i guess i just don't know what to look for.
This rambled. i don't have my thoughts well ordered. DRAT.
