thoughts from the list
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jdmkleinWhere would you draw the line between dark s/m and light s/m?
What time of the day it is done? Light s/m is during daylight hours. Dark is at night, right? That was my first thought to this question on the list i read most. My light may be someone else's dark and vice versa. Sometimes i don't know where she comes up with these questions. Is there supposed to be two sides? Maybe it's because she doesn't see herself as being submissive. She lives her life far far differently than i live mine. i don't know that there are two sides to this. i don't know what she considers s/m to be.
She often talks about using words the right way, to say what you mean. i believe the dictionary definition of s/m is sadomasochism. Sadism--in which gratification is obtained by the infliction of physical or mental pain on others (as on a love object). Masochism is pleasure in being subjected to pain or humiliation especially by a love object. Obviously we don't think of those terms in the same way.The light side of s/m is little pain? i enjoy reading the posts on the list, but i will never understand that woman or how her mind works. i must admit i see a lot of similarity between her and Master. i have no doubt that she is dominant.
Do you at times, yearn for death?
i don't yearn for death, but i am not afraid of it. i am not religious. i have no belief in an after life. Dead is dead. The body ceases to work. i won't know. i understand my family will miss me, i hope. But what they know as me will be gone. i will have no pain. i won't know if my children will have grief. My guess is they will, but only because i have seen and experienced the same first hand.
The three most lethal/damaging ( potential ) types of play that come
to mind are:
Gun play
Breath play
Bleedout play
Master enjoys breath control. i enjoy the orgasm that comes from having my breath controlled. it. He enjoys seeing my pleasure. It's that simple. For Him, control is the key. What is more precious than air to a living being? Being able to control that must be a hell of a power trip for Him. i don't know. i just know He enjoys it.
What time of the day it is done? Light s/m is during daylight hours. Dark is at night, right? That was my first thought to this question on the list i read most. My light may be someone else's dark and vice versa. Sometimes i don't know where she comes up with these questions. Is there supposed to be two sides? Maybe it's because she doesn't see herself as being submissive. She lives her life far far differently than i live mine. i don't know that there are two sides to this. i don't know what she considers s/m to be.
She often talks about using words the right way, to say what you mean. i believe the dictionary definition of s/m is sadomasochism. Sadism--in which gratification is obtained by the infliction of physical or mental pain on others (as on a love object). Masochism is pleasure in being subjected to pain or humiliation especially by a love object. Obviously we don't think of those terms in the same way.The light side of s/m is little pain? i enjoy reading the posts on the list, but i will never understand that woman or how her mind works. i must admit i see a lot of similarity between her and Master. i have no doubt that she is dominant.
Do you at times, yearn for death?
i don't yearn for death, but i am not afraid of it. i am not religious. i have no belief in an after life. Dead is dead. The body ceases to work. i won't know. i understand my family will miss me, i hope. But what they know as me will be gone. i will have no pain. i won't know if my children will have grief. My guess is they will, but only because i have seen and experienced the same first hand.
The three most lethal/damaging ( potential ) types of play that come
to mind are:
Gun play
Breath play
Bleedout play
Master enjoys breath control. i enjoy the orgasm that comes from having my breath controlled. it. He enjoys seeing my pleasure. It's that simple. For Him, control is the key. What is more precious than air to a living being? Being able to control that must be a hell of a power trip for Him. i don't know. i just know He enjoys it.
