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We did our good deed for the week. One of the men who works with Master moved into our building today. We had them over for dinner tonight because their house isn't settled. It worked out fine. They were a bit late and then had to leave because someone called and wanted to see the new place. So they weren't here much more than 45 minutes.
That sort of sounds unfriendly or unkind but that's just the way i am. i like the couple but i do feel a bit uncomfortable. This is not a prejudice but she is Philippine. It seems most American men get hooked up with Philippine women. They come over here as maids and become quite acommodating to them. And suddenly all of a sudden by accident they are pregnant. And the stupid men who only think with their dicks do the 'proper' thing and marry them. Sometimes for real, sometimes in a muslim ceremony so they can live together. Of course this ceremony is not recognized as legal in any other country so
the poor girl often gets stuck when the guy leaves. But she has the one thing she really wanted which is an American child. That's an automatic admission to the U.S. and a green card. And that, folks, is what it's all about.
One mad who works with Master is on his third Philippina. One has taken him for over 100,000$ and on top of that, she was already married and still married when she married him. He put her in a house in the states and bought her a car. As soon as he came back here to work she sold the car, a small one, colt or something, for a bigger one, because an American 'wife' shouldn't have to drive such a small economy car. Then she has her Philippino husband come over and live in the house with her. Of course the American is such a sucker he can't kick her out until the kids, not even his, are through school. What bullshit. And that is just one, there about a gazillion other stories like that. i never ran into this kind of thing in Taiwan, but it is all the rage over here.
This is a prejudice. These men who marry foreigners have a particular mindset. They may not even know they are dominant, or realize it, but what they are looking for is a submissive, meek, mild, butter wouldn't melt in her mouth woman who will do whatever the Big Manly Macho man says. It is my opinion they are afraid of a woman from their own culture, American, because American women have asserted themselves in am overt way. Women in other cultures are more covert about it. I'm making a sweeping generalization here. These women are conniving, and duplicitous. They will do anything they need to. Everyone thinks Muslim women are so down trodden, bah! Muslim men are the biggest cowards around. They wouldn't say shit if they had a mouthful when it comes to their women. Why in the world anyone of them would want four wives, is beyond me.
Of course the women are shrews. They are naggers and mean and spiteful, simply because they feel they have to be in order to get what they want. It's a miserable circle. At least American women put it out there. And these men who marry outside their cultures can't deal with it.
How the heck did i get from dinner for neighbors to Muslim and Philippine women? Yea gods, and little fish hooks.
At any rate i am uncomfortable around these couples. And there are many many reasons.
That sort of sounds unfriendly or unkind but that's just the way i am. i like the couple but i do feel a bit uncomfortable. This is not a prejudice but she is Philippine. It seems most American men get hooked up with Philippine women. They come over here as maids and become quite acommodating to them. And suddenly all of a sudden by accident they are pregnant. And the stupid men who only think with their dicks do the 'proper' thing and marry them. Sometimes for real, sometimes in a muslim ceremony so they can live together. Of course this ceremony is not recognized as legal in any other country so
the poor girl often gets stuck when the guy leaves. But she has the one thing she really wanted which is an American child. That's an automatic admission to the U.S. and a green card. And that, folks, is what it's all about.
One mad who works with Master is on his third Philippina. One has taken him for over 100,000$ and on top of that, she was already married and still married when she married him. He put her in a house in the states and bought her a car. As soon as he came back here to work she sold the car, a small one, colt or something, for a bigger one, because an American 'wife' shouldn't have to drive such a small economy car. Then she has her Philippino husband come over and live in the house with her. Of course the American is such a sucker he can't kick her out until the kids, not even his, are through school. What bullshit. And that is just one, there about a gazillion other stories like that. i never ran into this kind of thing in Taiwan, but it is all the rage over here.
This is a prejudice. These men who marry foreigners have a particular mindset. They may not even know they are dominant, or realize it, but what they are looking for is a submissive, meek, mild, butter wouldn't melt in her mouth woman who will do whatever the Big Manly Macho man says. It is my opinion they are afraid of a woman from their own culture, American, because American women have asserted themselves in am overt way. Women in other cultures are more covert about it. I'm making a sweeping generalization here. These women are conniving, and duplicitous. They will do anything they need to. Everyone thinks Muslim women are so down trodden, bah! Muslim men are the biggest cowards around. They wouldn't say shit if they had a mouthful when it comes to their women. Why in the world anyone of them would want four wives, is beyond me.
Of course the women are shrews. They are naggers and mean and spiteful, simply because they feel they have to be in order to get what they want. It's a miserable circle. At least American women put it out there. And these men who marry outside their cultures can't deal with it.
How the heck did i get from dinner for neighbors to Muslim and Philippine women? Yea gods, and little fish hooks.
At any rate i am uncomfortable around these couples. And there are many many reasons.
